It's a sad day today. It's sad to acknowledge the death of hope and our own complicity in that death.
I care about the world, and I care about my country's place in the world and I care about the poor and the oppressed. For me at least, I seem to have woken up this morning to that feeling of "acceptance" when you realize you've lost, or when you know you aren't going to get that thing you want or hoped for.
I was a soldier and I think I have some sense of what the soldier wants - he wants to protect his buddies; he wants to protect the innocent; he doesn't want to kill anybody; he wants to survive. But he also signed up to serve and is willing to make the ultimate sacrifice for the people he loves and things he believes in. I haven't done a survey, but I've talked to enough and I'm friends with enough to have to believe our American soldiers consider it a privilege to go fight on behalf of the poor and the oppressed around the world - not just in our own back yard. It's in our DNA and in our training.
I've never been in a war - thankfully. I was in the military on either side of the wars in Iraq. But I can't imagine how demoralizing it is to see your friends and family die in a war where there's no likely good outcome, ala Afghanistan over the last 20 years, or the second Iraq war, for examples.
We (I say "We" intentionally) started down the path of losing Ukraine when we let Putin walk into Crimea unobstructed. We lost Eastern Ukraine when we let Putin take that territory while we sat and watched and doled out a few dollars and a few weapons that were always too little and too late.
I don't know what the ratio is these days, but it used to be that when you were attacking a well-defended position, the attacker needed three times as many resources (soldiers, weapons, etc) to succeed. There is no way we would ever stomach investing the resources required to take back what has become Putin's well-defended position in Ukraine.
That's the sad "acceptance" I woke up to this morning. It's embarrassing to me as an American and a former soldier that we've gotten to this place. And it didn't have to be this way - that's what's even worse. If our leaders cared more about people than politics, we would have dropped the 82nd Airborne Division into Crimea as soon as Putin crossed the border and we would have said, "you shall not pass!" And it would have been done right there and then. We could have done the same in Rwanda in 1994 and prevented a genocide that killed millions.
I'm a bit of a realist I suppose, at least when it comes to international relations. I don't believe in getting into or fighting or having our soldiers die for unwinnable wars. But I would fully support my son or daughter going to fight and potentially die to be part of saving the Ukrainian people from the fate they are living through now. Sadly, now we are at a place where taking back Eastern Ukraine is virtually an unwinnable scenario. So, the best we can do is try to end it and negotiate whatever structures need to be put in place to avoid it restarting in the future.
It didn't have to be this way.